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Where To Take A Girl On A First Date
I feel sorry for attractive women. They get asked out so many times, but all their dates are the same: dinner, drinks, cinema. It must get old pretty quickly.
But this is an opportunity for some clever and creative guys out there, because if they can do some different stuff, it will be very attractive. It will also usually cost less! Where does a creative guy take a girl on a first date? Here’s my best first date ideas:
1. Activity-based dates
An activity based date is where you meet and do something pretty exciting. It is great fun for her, but afterwards you should also go for a drink or sit down somewhere so that you can connect with her. She’ll be much more open to it after a fun date. What are some examples of a good activity-based date?
-The fair.
-The games arcade. No not to play Tekken.
Do physical games like the dancing games, racing games, and if she is a bit tough, the punching games.
-Play a sport or game of table tennis, table football, darts, pool, badminton, or even trampolining.
-Go to a class together: Dancing (Salsa is good), pranayama, massage. If it is something you wanted to try already, even better.
-Fly a kite.
2. Nature-based date
Girls love animals and nature. Design a nature based date and it should be a memorable experience. Examples would be:
-Feeding the ducks and squirrels in the park.
-A boat trip up the river.
-The zoo (make sure she doesn’t morally object).
-The aquarium..
3. Interest-based date
If she has expressed an interest in a certain area like art, history, or foreign films, take her on a date that matches this interest.
4. Tourist Stuff
It’s amazing how many City-dwellers haven’t done the famous tourist stuff in their city. Casually find out if she has been to Buckingham Palace, the Tower of London, or whatever your local attraction is. Chances are neither of you have so it will make a great first date.
5. Buy a Local Events Guide
There are all kinds of cool events going on in big cities all the time. Things like food festivals, charity concerts, and street parties. Find one that sounds cool and go together.
By having an activity or something else as the focus of the date, it takes a lot of pressure off the interaction. By the time you sit down to talk, you will have a fun shared experience and she will already be more open to you. If you have taken a girl on a date like this, chances are she’ll be telling all her friends about the great time she had, and she’ll definitely be sold on seeing you again.
23 Responses to “Where To Take A Girl On A First Date”
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August 22nd, 2008 at 4:29 pm
Where is the best place to take a 16 yr old very shy girl on a first date?
the story is: my best friend in the whole world has a huge crush on this 16
yr old girl in our band class they are pretty good friends and he plans on asking her out and wants to know where in the world he should take her on the first date and they do not live in a very big town more like a rural area in WV! Please help me help him
August 22nd, 2008 at 9:31 pm
movies
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August 22nd, 2008 at 9:33 pm
Simple, go with her to the local HS football game….BING BING BING….WE HAVE A WINNNNNNNNNER!
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August 22nd, 2008 at 9:35 pm
i also second movies. then they can ease into the relationship. and they’ll have something to talk about by the end of the movies.
i also suggest- a walk in the park?
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August 22nd, 2008 at 9:37 pm
Perhaps a movie? Then go eat somewhere.
The movie must come first, though. That way there’s something to talk about. Strike up the conversation by talking about the movie and other discussions will arise, I guarantee it.
She’ll be more comfortable that way.
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August 22nd, 2008 at 9:39 pm
Tell your friend to know the girl more. Take note of her interests, and decide which place she would be suited/most comfortable hanging out with him.
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August 22nd, 2008 at 9:41 pm
how about a group outing – that way they can get to know each other and maybe she won’t feel so shy
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still shy 37 year old
August 22nd, 2008 at 9:43 pm
A movie or for dinner but not expensive, something simple (just make sure they´re not alone, makes it less awkward)
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August 22nd, 2008 at 9:45 pm
I would say the movies. Try a local high school football game. It’s best if it’s at your school.
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August 22nd, 2008 at 9:47 pm
the movies that way they dont have to talk and be embaressed but can still get closer !
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August 22nd, 2008 at 9:49 pm
go out with some friends to a movie or something then go to get pizza… then she will get confrotable (cant spell lol) with u.
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August 22nd, 2008 at 9:51 pm
something that will keep them busy! movies? Arcade? Bowling?
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August 22nd, 2008 at 9:53 pm
take her to a movie and after maybe they could go to get some dessert like ice cream or cookies or sumthin. that would be a great first date for a shy 16 year old girl.
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August 22nd, 2008 at 9:55 pm
a coffee shop!
its suttle, and cute, and brings up good conversation. and its not too hostile. unlike the movies, where you feel your obligated to make a move, and it might get awkward. so stick to somewhere simple!
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August 22nd, 2008 at 9:57 pm
Out on a peaceful picnic at a park or at the beach.
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August 22nd, 2008 at 9:59 pm
First of all, she has to say Yes to his request before you can even choose a place to go. Second of all, if they really like each other, the place won’t matter because they will just be happy to be with each other. =D
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August 22nd, 2008 at 10:01 pm
a movie and then go eat at a small restaurant. dont do anything big till later
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August 22nd, 2008 at 10:03 pm
The bedroom
Banger!
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August 22nd, 2008 at 10:05 pm
He should take her to the movies then out to eat because she wont have to talk during the movie. She can get comfortable with him and then go out to eat and they can talk. Or to make her feel more comfortable .. double date. You and her friend with him and her.
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August 22nd, 2008 at 10:07 pm
i think you should take her to meat farms.
get some ham.
and eat it.
that would be a good idea
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August 22nd, 2008 at 10:09 pm
movie,
coffee,
I’m really out of more ideas, I don’t know, sorry..
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August 22nd, 2008 at 10:11 pm
you and your friends must live in my little rural area in west virginia! :]
just because it’s a first date doesn’t mean they have to go all out. this may sound dumb, but an evening of board games and cards at one of their homes could really be fun and provide an opportunity for actual conversation. it’s a great ice breaker, because she’ll get to know the guy better than she would if they sat in silence at a movie for an hour and a half. if she’s really shy, your friend may want to invited some mutual friends to make the date more comfortable for her.
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August 22nd, 2008 at 10:13 pm
Here are on websites…
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http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080710141837AA5KaX2
http://revver.com/video/1031744/how-to-ask-a-shy-girl-out-on-a-date/
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CqoiiELpIJI
http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=215311
http://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080808213330AANiUQL